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Proper behavior of parents when arguing with brothers or friends.
Accept a child’s fight naturally_Children fight from time to time. However, many parents watch their children’s fights and say, “What are you going to become when you grow up?” and stop them from worrying or being conscious of other parents. However, these words and actions instill anxiety in the child and lower the child’s self-esteem, so you should never do it or show it off. Because I am a child, I look at the children’s fight a little leisurely with the mind that I am fighting.
Brothers are always fair_Parents are often held accountable according to their child hierarchy. However, it is very important to persuade children in equal positions. Let’s not make ranks because we are older or younger. This is the cause of making children feel “because I’m older” or “because I’m younger.”
It does not encourage a sense of competition_ Words such as “Let’s see who does it first” and “Let’s see who eats first” secretly make children feel competitive. Then, children often lead to fights because they don’t want to play first or lose. It is not desirable to encourage sibling competition to induce parents to do it quickly because they are a little lazy.
Always pay attention to the child’s behavior_Being in trouble means you want attention. If a child usually causes problems in playing with another child, he or she is more interested in the child and spends more time playing with the child than saying, “Who do you look like?”
Becomes a role model for play_Brothers have a lot of quarrels because they usually play together. In that case, it is necessary for parents to take the initiative before solving the problem. It shows how children play together when they play. Children play with their younger siblings using their parents’ play methods as models. It is much more effective than letting children play. This is the same not only for playing brothers but also for playing with friends.
Try to play roles_ Children of this period have a self-centered way of thinking, so it is impossible for children to think first in their friends’ situation. But that doesn’t mean you never think about your friend’s situation. You will understand a little bit how your friend will feel if he or she loses things while playing roles with his or her parents.
Accepts emotions without filtering_Don’t take the child’s words distortedly, read and tell the child’s sad feelings as they are. A word, “I’m disappointed because of this,” makes the child feel relieved.
Make them decide on their own what punishment to receive_ If they commit a serious mistake and punish their child, make them choose among several punishments. For example, choose some of the unnecessary things, such as banning games and watching TV. However, if you force a child to do something he or she hates, such as studying and eating well when deciding on a penalty, it may have a negative effect, so you should decide carefully.